So I've been thinking about romantic relationships and how I notice few people comment about how they want a man that has a job, a car, his own place. I pondered over what I wanted a woman that has her shit together as well same thing then so if I found a girl that didn't have a job, car, or place of her own, then I wouldn't even give her a chance. Now everyone has to start somewhere right? True most people stay the same economically and mentally. It's difficult to change a person or to grow... So what I'm saying is you give a guy a chance but he's broke af. So he approaches you and you notice what his social standing is and do not even give him a second of your time. Then let's say a few years later he has of course grown and become successful in his own way and you find that attractive now what gives you the right to be with that man, let's say for the rest of yours and his life; if you weren't with him when times were tough?
